To me, the defining factor is, am I doing it in a performative way for other people? OrAm I doing it because it's just what I want to do? So I like to wear tight eye T-shirts. When I go to get dressed in the morning, I put on the one that I feel like represents how I feel that day with much less, I won't say zero. There's nothing wrong with wanting to express yourself so that you're perceived in a certain way or so that you kind of fit in somewhere but can also get pathological when you're doing it solely with the purpose of others receiving it a certain way.

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