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How to Dismiss Red Flags
In your book, you talk about our tendency to dismiss red flags when we see them. Incongruence is essentially when there are two realities, which let's be honest and truthful and humble about this. We trade incongruence dishonesty truly for belonging for attachment. So what that looks like, practically, I'll give you more of an example from what that was for my husband as a pastor.