Is It Hard to Lose Your Faith, or Leave Your Religion?

Am, it's funny, because the two things that i find myself talking about the most these days with deconverted people thati that i kind of counsel with. A lot of them are married to people that are still of the faith, and and they're trying to figure out what to do. I think there's probably a great deal of challene you know, h i got to tell you, there's a huge difference between the comfort that deconverted people have. But there is something about, maybe, if you still have some a partner who still understands, there can be something comforting about that.