Polyamory - Is Your Partner Dating Other People?

Some people have trauma around sex and so being sexual with someone is incredibly tender and vulnerable. It might be hard for them to imagine that same dynamic happening with someone else. If you're feeling pressured or pushed into being non-monogamous by a partner I'd really consider standing up for yourself. No one should be compelled to engage in something that doesn't feel right to them. But do you know what's totally okay? It's totally okay to not want to hear every juicy detail about your partner's dates. Having these things coming up does not make you bad at polyamory.