How to Unwind a Power Struggle and Create Alignment

A plan, it doesn't matter, for a couple to be talking about those differences can also go a long way in decreasing the overall level of annoyance. The default in any power struggle is that the person who is digging their heels in and not doing anything often wins by default because it blocks action from taking place. For many couples, it requires support to be able to hold this space with each other,. And you know, we also need to be respectful of external pressures.