How Do You Handle Friendships When One Person Is Inconsiderate?

How do you handle friendships when one person is inconsiderate in not putting in the effort? Oh, ie, i've often been through this with my ela, best friend. I would always fly to nia for her, to see her make the actual effort,. And then after a while, she never comes to me and initiates conversation. After conversations like that, it's when you get closer to a friend too or ore, it could be that you guys are just, you know, not compatible as friends at all. N yon guys. There i guess it is like a relationship it's li that's why friendships are hard.