Dealing With the Trama of Our Past

I think one thing that can help a us guard our hearts in marriage is dealing with the drama of our past. We tend to be very visual people, and so we can even grow discontent of our wives seeing different women's body types or looking a certain way. And what somebody could say, oh, she's just a rebellious woman. I've had to trace back to being abused and not wanting to feel like a man was trying to control me right? So now i have to go, i have to ligt go back to that place and say, ok, god, this is, this is the wound.