Are You Dating Someone and Your Husband Touches You?

When we relate to sexuality in a way that makes us feel like we are losing our sense of self through our sexual relationship we won't be desirous. When you're dating someone and they touch your hand or touch the back of your neck it's either just every day you don't even notice it or it could mean an entire life together. But when you're married, if you create a meaning frame in which you owe him sex or you better do it or else he's going to look at pornography or something like that well then it starts to feel like being sexual takes away from your sense of self. So continue to have an expansive mindset or frame of meaning yes.