The Micro Aggressions Between Girls and Them Women

i know it can be hard to hear this when you're somebody who prides yourself on being good and doing the right thing. But nice, kind sweet people who try to do the right thing also have boundary issues. Stop focus ing on your intentions. They don't outweigh impact. And focusing on your good intentions actually exasperates the harm you may have caused to somebody else. Consider how you benefit from presumed goodness and innocence. What has this allowed you to get away? Who's getting the crappy end of the stick of this? Who? If you're really honest with yourself, is it that you have underliing, tension, friction and resentment?