How to Find Out Who Your Parent Is

i have a first cousin who lived a mile away from me in my tiny, little village of five thousand people. And we didn't know we were first cousins until i took the test. One of them had an actual photo of my mother and my biological father when they were engaged before i was born. I just burst into tears when they gave me that photo. O, it's the only one any one knows of of the two of them together,. It's really special.