How Do You Feel When You Are Not Afraid of Being a White Person?

"I think it's part that i don't want to feel bad about myself," she says. "The more i identified as part of a bad group and not wanting to be, the less i was actually feeling any connection or real compassion ... It wasn't until i started not taking it as personally and just saying, ok, this is the conditioning of society, that i actually could start feeling grief for the real fering of my friends."