Corporate Environments and Emotional Repression

Have you ever felt like you have done everything "right" and you still hit a stress ceiling? You have gone to therapy, set boundaries, practiced self-care, learned regulation, and yet you still find yourself snapping, shutting down, or running on empty. This episode explores what it can look like to move beyond coping and into true emotional capacity. Not a life without stress, but a wider internal ability to meet life as it is, without collapsing into burnout or disconnection.

In this episode of Trauma Rewired, co-hosts Elisabeth Kristof (founder of BrainBased.com and the Neurosomatic Intelligence Coaching Certification) and Jennifer Wallace (Neurosomatic Psychedelic Preparation and Integration Guide, founder of Sacred Synapse) are joined by RaQuel Hopkins, a therapist and certified coach known for her work on capacity and adult development. Together, they unpack the difference between resilience, distress tolerance, and capacity, why "regulation" can sometimes become suppression, and how relating to emotions as data can create more choice. They also explore boundaries through the lens of self-trust, and why honoring "I do not want to" can be a meaningful step toward recovery and growth.

Timestamps:

• 00:00 – Why "doing everything right" can still feel like a ceiling

• 06:30 – What capacity means (and why it is about who you become)

• 14:30 – Resilience vs distress tolerance vs capacity

• 23:30 – Emotional strength, fragility, and the regulation misconception

• 34:30 – Boundaries, self-trust, and choice vs depletion

• 46:30 – Protective emotions, curiosity, and integration

• 56:30 – Corporate environments, pressure, and being human at work

• 1:03:00 – Closing reflections and where to find RaQuel

• 1:05:30 – Listener invitation and next steps (trial + workshop)

Key Takeaways:

• Capacity is not just "holding more." It can be about meeting life as it is and adapting without losing yourself.

• Regulation is not the same thing as calm. It is about modulation and appropriate responsiveness.

• Emotional strength includes feeling emotions without being defined by them. Emotions can be information, not directives.

• A "hard no" can sometimes be a signal of depletion, not clarity. Self-trust can reduce the need to announce boundaries.

• Protective patterns once helped you survive. Growth can start with curiosity rather than judgment.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free live 90-minute workshop: Neurosomatic.com/Integration

• NSI Community: Neurosomatic.com

• BrainBased: BrainBased.com

• Sacred Synapse: an educational YouTube channel founded by Jennifer Wallace that explores nervous system regulation, applied neuroscience, consciousness, and psychedelic preparation and integration through Neurosomatic Intelligence.

• Wayfinder Journal: Track nervous system patterns and support preparation and integration through Neurosomatic Intelligence.

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