Bullying Is Not the Problem

Gordon Neufeld says that frustration is the engine of aggression. When people's needs are frustrated, there is going to be a more and more aggression. Cancer typically happens in people who emotionally repressed themselves Particularly their anger Because they had to do that to survive the parental environment And then that becomes a coping style. We're not even treating them, we're reacting to them Yeah, we're punishing them or whatever we're doing We're punishing them But we're not You know, virtually every single inmate of the criminal justice system Were traumatized children.