
How to Talk so Kids will Listen with Julie King and Joanna Faber, Episode #19
The Child Psych Podcast
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How to Get the Behavior You Want
Parents tend to focus on the behavior when looking at their kids. But if we think for ourselves, when are we not our best selves as parents, right? I'm hearing you say, be curious about what might be going on here. It's kind of like when you do, I'm a, in a past lifetime, I was a couple therapists. And I always would tell couples you're not fighting about the dishwasher. Like, chances are, you know, something happened that day or there was a rupture in your relationship. We have to stay curious as to what might been going on for that person what's going on for you.
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