I Love Toumot Personal Development

i love toumot personal development. But like my mum dying when i was 11 was something that shaped my whole world, including before she died. She'd always been sick, and then she died like that, to me, had defined who i was by what i had made that mean. I could just really clearly see, like, when i think about what happened, without the drama and without making it mean anything about myself,. but then i make it mean i'm not good enough or lovable on some level because of that. And just to see,like, ill, wait  totally normal. As a human, our brains always try to figure out what everything means and give