I just, yeah, I don't get that though, because I totally am with you on the psychological side of things. But my main difficulty with the way that you guys have been describing it in my ignorance here is how the hell would you resolve conflict between you and someone younger than you? Are you in some, and that seems to be, it seems like giving up on the possibility of resolving conflict? Well, only resolving conflict about a very specific philosophical question about what are the precise conditions. About what? Yeah, to be morally responsible and to deserve blame.