A great deal can be changed when couples understand what's going on in their relationship and the specific types of strategies that work for couples impacted by ADHD. It isn't ADHD that causes divorce, it's denial and lack of engagement cause divorce. If you have a partner who simply refuses to engage your partnership is not going to change particularly.
Many romantic relationships touched by ADHD are marked by misunderstandings and emotional outbursts. Effective communication skills, however, can be learned. Melissa Orlov teaches strategies that will resolve conflict with your partner.