The Wedding Is a Crowd Fund

People who are in lower income brackets tend to spend a lot more on weddings than people who actually have some level of wealth. I find the more money you spend, the more uptight everybody gets and it takes away from having a beautiful, beautiful occasion. So organize your gift so it really is a good investment for them and for you. And, and really helps you get going in life. Don't don't waste it on things you really won't love and really won't use.