We spend too much time defending and sort of bolstering that identity. Nobody finds themselves. They make themselfs. That's what iam sayingi im not putting it down. The false self, or the ego, as many call it,. Not a phantom in the bad way. But none of those things, learning jugito a fighting was never essential to you. Like if o had learned something ours, ye, then you would have become that. Lik, if i had been born in kentucky instead of boston, i would have been from kentucky. Or if i moved like these things aren't essential, so they're not real.