Is This Person Emotionally Available?

If you are at stage zero or one, you cannot say whether the person is emotionally available. You're trying to find out information that you really can't assess fort the stage. Having a sense of how emotionally available someone is takes time, experience and intimacy. An intimacy only starts to kick in at stage too and beyond. And so when you've been tippy tappy, texton with them, like for two days, you're asking a question that you can't answer,. It's crating unnecessary pressure and anxiety.