Is it safe to say that we all have some degree of trama? Well, i think that's a very rke qustioned a. I think first yo recognizes that drama isn't necessarily big, terrible things happening to you. Caustramo again, is not what happened to you, temus, what has happend inside you. And you can be wounded without those big things happening toYou. So you can wound kids, not just by hurting them, but by not meeting their needs,. Not meating thei emotional needs to be understood, to be seen for who they are and unconditionally accepted.