The Limits of Parenting

Children do find that place to push the limits, you know. And when they're playing, they are on the border between order and chaos. It's what, it's what pushes their development forward. You can tell actually, if you've got the balance between chaos and order proper in your house, then your children will play. Because play only emerges. The limit is partly encouragement of their continued growth, but also the walls around them that need to be there so that they can feel secure enough to play. We have this instinct for meaning. Saywell, what's meaningful? Well, let's say, well, doing what you can do that can be meaningful, but it's not