Dean Obeidallah: The deepest meaning of game is when we use this. We're talking about the game as something with structure, something with rules,. Something that other people are playing. He says failing to recognize you are playing certain games could be a costly blind spot if failures in these areas would be ignored. "I'm an attorney that's been practicing for one and a half years. Can't figure out if I actually hate it or I'm just getting used to it"