Are You Putting Stones on Top of Each Other?

Many people seem to be a bit afraid of binding themselves to a person, and at the same time, looking always for a better option. If you want to do something, ye, you need to like, connect yourself to it. You need to be very like, say, oki. This is what i'm doing,. Then you need to be where there invest your time. And then you need to stop looking for better options. To continuously look for better options doesn't make much sense, because it takes you out of the moment. It makes you absent from the moment. So we have none biting up sense and looking for petter options. That's a problem when it comes to