Speaker 2
the app is a means to an end it's just so they spend too much time between meeting someone on an app and going on a date person yeah
Speaker 1
I think like if it's more than a week you you can't go more than a week just talking somebody you need to like meet them because there's a lot that can change from somebody's profile to like how you feel with them so yeah they were only talking in for like a day or two before I met him but yeah I was all my girlfriends it wasn't even me
Speaker 2
you know when you transition from being on an app to a date was there a lot of people were like but how well do I know someone after a week do I feel comfortable meeting them in person like what for you was the go-to kind of date that felt low pressure easy to get out of not you know just yeah just not like something that made you feel like I barely know this person I'm going on a date with them what would you do that felt easy
Speaker 1
and how would you get there with that person I think a lot of people are intimidated by dating apps because they think stranger danger but I also think we're all strangers until we're not like even if you meet somebody at a bar you're a stranger so there's not really a difference in that except the difference is that they're behind a screen but which is why I think you should really just like meet somebody quick on a dating app but would you give
Speaker 2
out your number or would you just arrange a date on the app so that they didn't have a way to find you outside of
Speaker 1
the app yes and I would always I either did coffee dates or a drink and I would always say that I had dinner plans after that's small yeah so you had
Speaker 2
an hour I hadn't had an hour and if it was going well you
Speaker 1
stated and if it was going well I was just like whatever I just like did if someone asked for your number in the