Forgiveness and Sympathy Are the Same

We want to have some discomfort when a need isn't being met, but we want to do this in a natural way. So that was the first you'll help each person do. How would you have spoken to yourself to just be conscious of what need of yours wasn't meat by doing this? And then, after you've helped the person to mourn, help them to engage in self, forgiveness. See, in giraffe land, in the land of non violent communication, forgiveness and sympathy are the same thing. When we sympathize, there's nothing to forgive. Forgiveness implies this ole game of, if you forgive, if you confess your evilness to saintly person