How to Use Substances to Feel Aroused

I am a huge proponent of people using substances if they feel like they need to. I don't believe anyone should ever be ashamed for their sexual performance. If you're having trouble lubricating, drink some water, use some lube and dry a blindfold. You would be massively surprised what guys will do to put a smile on the face of the woman they care about. Men are not robots. They want to feel desired and special too. So if there's something that they need in order to be aroused or ready or into it, lean towards doing that.