How to Connect With Your Husband - You Need to See the Results First

When you connect with him again, you need to see real results. You need to feel his compassion. In fact, i would even look for his apology. He needs to be the change that you want to see in your world. If you start to see anything of the old behavior, you got to say, that's it. I'm not going to handle this. This is where you keep your power. But when you give in and allow someone to do the same things they used to do, and they keep promising you, i promise, i'll change. That doesn't feel empowering at all. It feels like i'm giving in, i'm submitting, and i'm just hoping