i was probably like, in eighth crade or ninth grade when i was like, i'm going to get into music now, am? And i think it's it as an identity builder. My parents weren't like, big music fans, like, we didn't really listen to much music at home. I remember thinking it was weird that my parents didn't object to me. But like you, if they had, i would have been offended.
Michelle Zauner of Japanese Breakfast (musician!) makes it weird!