Introduction

An attachment perspective on incompatible relationships. Why some relationships are so difficult to heal even if we put significant effort into understanding our partners and ourselves. To start with this talk, I'd like to offer an example of a classic dilemma that might cause friction in a relationship. This is not based on any couple that I've worked with and counseling. It's just something I cooked up based on a lot of different patterns I've seen in working with people in relationship and partners.