How to Have Pleasure With a Partner

Most men don't necessarily need that middle ground to feel like they can have sex more women will feel that middle ground is highly necessary in order to feel comfortable having sex. When there's no build up of pleasure in that middle ground it gets very confusing to all of a sudden have sex for most women and I'm sure some men too. If you're not understanding why your partner doesn't want to be flirtatious with you or doesn't wants to hug you you should ask your partner why right? A lot of guys just avoid arguments because they're like it's not even worth it and then they just shut down instead of standing up for themselves and taking the lead on something so she's