Is There a Gay Pride Flag Hanging From Your Balcony?

LZ Granderson: I was reminded of an example where someone who was considering coming out to family members was thinking about it actively. He says there are these covert messages that come up in so many subtle ways. LZ: We have to be aware of the environment that we're creating on a regular basis. If you make a mistake, whether it's overt or covert, and you say something that is not supported by the l g b t c community, own it. Apologize and move on.