Wright: I was just kind of noticing that it must be like, really for you to be put into this situation where it's like, either he ruins his life, or you're the bad guy. So how do you get your child to manage their own time? How does that happen? Wright: It's lhate he understand that he needs to manage his time. And i don't want to be on top of him always, ok, kind of el like policing him.