Lila: I feel like this, the how we are different in social situations may just always be an aspect of our relationship. So going a little bit into my parents, feeling like my parents don't see me, then I become, I try to become famous so that people can see me even this podcast is the glowing example of like, I want you guys, the listeners to know me. Lila: Is it as simple as like, why is everyone looking at that instead of me? Like is it a little voice like that? There could be some of that. You're all over there chanting about Barbie and Oppenheimer, but I'm over here. That's really interesting