I Enjoy Receiving Pleasure but Not Giving, Is This Normal?

There's nothing to feel guilty about here. There are partners out there who enjoy giving more than receiving. It makes total sense because you witnessing somebody experience pleasure might be activating for you. So the thought of somebody experiencing pleasure with your consent still feels yucky to you. Is there something that helps you stay more present about receiving but not giving? And then, if it comes up when you're with somebody new, how can you potentially talk about this with them without necessarily disclosing what your trauma is?