Is There a Relationship Between Deference and Mutuality?

The work is practising deference and mutual submission, which feels marry jesus ea me. Yet it's also related to the kind of relationship you have with experimentation and failure. If you don't practise these things, they are uncomfortable. And so i i think there's a kind of an willingness that has to be present or just or need to do some own work around why these kinds of things create such high levels of anxiety.