The Courage To Be Disliked (part 2)
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How to Separate Your Tasks
We all suffer in interpersonal relationships, and it really boils down to the fact that somebodyhas crept over into somebody else's task. The only way to solve these problems is to first ask, whose task is this so who is going to get the benefit of this action or this decision? Once you know whose task it is, separate the task completely. You shouldn't intervene in their tasks. And of course, don't let anybody intervene in yours. Moly, this is all sounding a bit toughened. Perhaps it's just easier to live in a way that's just satisfying other people's expectations. For example, just running along the tracks that your parents laid out and fulfilling their expectations
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