How to Keep a Hurtful Secret

You're better off eventually confessing than not, especially if you're struggling with who am I. Revealing the secret yourself will cause pain but having them learn it from someone else will undoubtedly cause even more because they won't be able to gain the trust back in any kind of way. You also want to reduce the number of fences and this is called integrity. If you know something that is bad for you, say no to it. Find a way that you can stop gap, you're impulsivity," she says.