This chapter delves into the need to consider both the rewards and costs when aspiring for certain aspects of others' lives, showcasing how success often comes with its own set of challenges. It features quotes from different individuals to illustrate the concept that one must be ready to accept both the positives and negatives that come with their desired achievements.
Jeff Bezos once said there are different kinds of smart. Distinguishing the various flavors is important because if you think smarts comes in just one form, you’ll miss dozens of other nuanced varieties.
BS is the same. It comes in countless forms, some harder to spot than others. False modesty, projecting, double standards, hypocrisy, tugging at heartstrings – these aren’t lies; they’re subtle forms of BS which is why they’re so prevalent.