Failure as a Starting Point

Today, we reflect on the moments that shaped us, challenged us, and quietly transformed us over the past year. Not just the highlights, but the heartbreaks, the pauses, the uncomfortable in-between seasons that forced us to grow in ways we didn’t fully understand at the time. In this special end-of-year compilation, you’ll hear powerful, deeply human insights from voices like Selena Gomez, Cardi B, Madonna, Novak Djokovic, Mel Robbins, Codie Sanchez, and more. Each conversation reveals how love, loss, pressure, purpose, spirituality, money, and self-belief intersect in real life, and why growth so often comes from moments we never would have chosen.

You’ll hear Selena and Benny reflect on how love grows through safety, patience, and showing up imperfectly. Cardi B opens up about depression, heartbreak, and how time, accountability, and resilience helped her reclaim her power. Madonna shares why cultivating an internal, spiritual life is essential in a noisy, distracted world, while Novak Djokovic explores the tension between ambition, self-worth, and purpose even at the peak of success. Mel Robbins challenges us to reclaim our energy by letting go of other people’s opinions, and Codie Sanchez reframes money, risk, and opportunity as skills that can be learned rather than fears to avoid. Together, these conversations remind us that growth isn’t linear, healing takes time, and the most meaningful progress begins when we listen inward, protect our energy, and move forward with intention.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Turn Hard Seasons Into Personal Growth

How to Build Love Through Vulnerability and Safety

How to Heal After Heartbreak Without Rushing the Process

How to Embrace Failure as a Starting Point, Not an Ending

How to Let Go of Other People’s Opinions and Reclaim Your Energy

How to Build Resilience Through Accountability and Time

How to Move Forward With Purpose, Not Pressure

Give yourself permission to heal at your own pace, to learn without shame, and to start again as many times as you need. Protect your energy, listen to what truly matters to you, and trust that small, intentional steps create meaningful change over time. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:20 Selena X Benny: Love Story

04:48 A Misunderstanding In The Studio

10:35 Love Blossomed From Friendship

12:27 The Little Things Matter

13:01 Emma Watson: Day To Day Activities & Hobbies

16:53 Honesty In Hardships

18:04 Staying Authentic To Yourself

20:01 Four Steps Forward, Four Steps Deep

23:07 Embracing Failure Creates Space For Resilience

24:34 Depression, Vulnerability & Divorce

28:53 Time Heals All

33:48 Handling Constant Criticism & Pressure

36:45 Madonna: 28 Years On A Spiritual Path

42:24 The Third Space Theory

44:16 Spiritual Practices To Keep You Going

48:30 Have You Really Dated a Narcissist?

50:15 Why Money Breaks Relationships

56:51 When Intimacy Needs Don’t Match

01:00:37 Cody Sanchez: Using Credit Cards the Smart Way

01:03:57 Do You Really Need Money to Start?

01:08:23 When Success Still Feels Like Not Enough

01:17:28 Where Your Energy Is Really Going

01:22:44 The Let Them Theory

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