Anger and Relationships - What Should You Do?

Nita: Do you agree with me that when some one says something intellectually to me that i find offensive, and it provokes anger? Or should you think it k to respond in kind and an an express similar outrage? Nita: I basically think no one should ever get revenge. The process of managing anger is really the process of restoring the relationship and thereby the norm to its healed, positive state.