Is It Yours or Yours?

melina, can i share some thought with you? So first of all, i don't think any of this is your fault. You have some degree of agency or control over your situation. I would encourage you to do your best to not blame yourself but also strike a balance between accepting that you made a mistake and forgiving yourself for making it. It's just, you know, we're human beings. We learn. But one thing that i would really encourage you to think a little bit about is what did the start of your relationship look like? And if you want to talk more, i think that's where we should explore.