Would You Just Give My Brother Money?

I feel like the difference is my brother's like a child and your brother is like a grown man. I think he'd give that money. We don't know this person's financial situation, why he was borrowing money in the first place. So we're speaking about this in very general terms. But when someone borrows money off you and you see them spend that money or you see them spending money in general, they come home with some shopping. Like, hey, I've just bought a drone. I just bought a water gun. And I'm petty. Did you say drone and water gun? Because you're just trying to think of what do men buy with their money? Yeah