
Ep253 - Laura Heck | The Science of Great Relationships
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Do You Want to Hurt Your Partner?
If i am contemptuous to my partner, in the next four years, he is more likely to have communicable diseases. It takes an effect on your immune system. If you want to hurt your partner, if you want them to be out sick a lot, then just be contemptuous. The masters are scanning their environment for what it is that their partner is doing. 80 % of the time, it's happening with men. Doesn't mean that women don't stonewall. It simply means that it's more common for men. You can change your brain by starting to recognize, what is it that i truly love and appreciate about my partner?
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