The Relationship Between Detachment From Stuff and Being Free to Enjoy the Things You Like

Thaddeus: Get to know good Holy priests, get to know them outside of just shaking hands after mass. If they invite you for a bonfire at the rectory, go hang out with them. See their humanity. I've seen a priest play the banjo. That's cool. And I want to be like that. Absurd scandal says, what’s the relation between detachment from stuff you enjoy in poverty and also being free to enjoy the things you like?