How to Ask Questions in Conversations

I've done a lot of reflecting recently on like the process through which I asked questions in these conversations. And certainly in this conversation, I'll notice that I'm like drawn to something and curious about something. That often happens before I'm able to clearly articulate what the question is or what the curiosity is. Sometimes actually most recently, I'm going to the way in which my ability to articulate lags. My self understanding about what the curiosity was so often I sort of like stumble over my words but it's relatable.