Friends' discomfort when you change

Host: Michal Charles aka MMC13

Guests: Alex & Julie

Early Days Podcast-group discussion

In this episode of 'Early Days Podcast,' host Michal is joined by Alex and Julie to discuss the reactions from friends and family when they announce their decision to quit drinking, and how sometimes those can be more harmful than good. They delve into personal experiences, the many stigmas around addiction, and the importance and value in having support systems in recovery. This dialogue could be particularly beneficial to those who don't have a personal history with addiction, as it may shed some light on how to provide support to those who reach out for help.

About Alex:

Alex started her journey towards recovery in 2023, and while the road is not always straight, and the journey not always linear,  she continually commits to sticking to it amidst an alcohol obsessed world. 

A music, book, and film lover, she is thrilled to have found a network of incredible sober friends throughout her time on this journey. She welcomes any opportunity to share her own journey, listen to others, and help in any way possible.

Alex was born and raised (and still resides!) in Brooklyn, New York, where she works as an HR Professional. She sings and records music with her husband in two bands: a rock band she has been a member of for over a decade, the other, a newer project with a more lo-fi sound. Music is her greatest joy and has saved her soul more times than she can count.

About Julie:

Julie is in the early stages of her sobriety journey, having joined the I Am Sober community in 2022. After experiencing multiple slip-ups, she found Sobertown's Zoom meetings, which provided her with support and tools necessary to maintain sobriety. Joining the Sobertown community has made the biggest difference due to the connection and validation she received from others going through similar struggles. Julie is excited to celebrate her one-year milestone in April 2025 and is passionate about giving back to the sober community, particularly through hosting Sobertown's ladies meetings. She believes that recovery is not linear and that a slip-up is not a setback but an opportunity to learn and continue on the path of recovery. Julie hopes to break the stigma and stereotypes surrounding addiction --  "We recover out loud so others don't die in silence."

Originally from Southern California, Julie relocated to Central Pennsylvania in 2024 for her career. An avid hiker, she finds peace and spiritual connection in nature. In her downtime, Julie enjoys watching and discussing thriller and horror films, indoor gardening, and spoiling her senior kitty.

About Michal:

Michal is an American podcaster and sober warrior who believes every recovery journey is as unique as the individual traveling it. With over a decade of sobriety garnered through various systems, programs, and support networks, she's passionate about breaking down stereotypes and smashing through the guilt and shame that can keep those suffering with addiction in the dark. Michal is an animal lover, rescue enthusiast, and motorcycle chick who loves helping others, whether in her personal or professional life. 

Contact Michal at:EarlydaysPC@gmail.com 

Other Sober Resources:

I Am Sober App

Getting Sober ...Again

Boom Rethink The Drink