What Made You Make That Transition?

"i realized a lot of awful things were sort of prisons of my own making," she says. "I started to connect with other widows in that time, which thesesmn, was extremely resistant toou like, i don't even want to be a widow, so, but i want be friends with on like, literally, why would? Why would that push us together?" She writes: "The worst thing about being in crisis is that you still are in charge."