You Don't Control Most of What Is Determined About You

Julia's life would have been so different if, when she got into mental health care. So much of our life we're not responsible for, and yet we're the only reliable agents to fix it. The flip side is also true, where there are people who shunt responsibility away from themselves. And those are the ones that screw up their life, and they blame the world,. Right? It's like the world is an evil place when it turns out that they're actually the ones that are responsible.