I'm So Happy for You, Even Though I Heard the Flutter of a Thousand Eye Rolls of Just Breakup Listeners Like, Ah, Man, Someone So Charmed With Life

I was struggling to prioritize my own wellness or like my own struggles because I kept putting them in context of other people who I felt objectively had it worse than I did. The therapist at the time described what she called that a well of resiliency that we all have within us. It's the fact that somebody might have more developed more resiliency throughout their life because of their lived experiences. Other people might not have or maybe they have the same lived experiences, but they have more or less resiliency. We can obviously look at privilege as something that we can quantify and say, wow, that double NPT homeless vet has these check marks of hardship,. And that your friend have